Becoming Fireproof
By
DJ Note
There’s
a welcome blaze spreading across the landscape, and believe me, you want to get
caught in it.
If
you liked Flywheel, if you
appreciated Facing The Giants, then
you’re going to love Sherwood Pictures third attempt in bringing us
value-packed, God-based movies. Enter Fireproof.
The
premise to this blockbuster feature-length faith-based movie is the fireman’s
mantra: Never leave your partner behind. And yet, contrary to that time-honored
standard—concerning his marriage—“leave” is exactly what, Caleb, the story’s
main character played by Kirk Cameron, is about to do.
In
a day when it’s nearly as easy to get a divorce, as it is to pay a parking
ticket, Fireproof shouts a message of
hope to a broken world crying for answers.
When Caleb breaks the news to his father, he’s given a dare—The Love
Dare—via a personal journal. Council comes too, through the concern and
encouragement of Caleb’s friend, Lt Michael Simmons. “Man I’ve seen you run into
a burning building to save people you don’t even know, but you’re gonna let
your own marriage just burn to the ground” and “Fireproof doesn’t mean a fire
will never come, but that when it comes you’ll be able to withstand it.”
When
the phone rang at Evangel, I answered with my usual “thank-you for calling” and
“may I help you?” The strong but surrendered male voice on the other end
sputtered,
“Do
you carry the “Love Dare” book shown in the movie, Fireproof?” I could almost hear the tears hitting his cheek. “My
wife and I saw that movie. I’m Caleb. I’m that guy. With God’s help, I’m gonna
save my marriage.”
The
following day, a young woman stood across from me amidst a number of people
crowded around making purchases and talking about their recent “Fireproof”
experience.
“Have
you seen the movie?” I asked. With eyes pooling in liquid emotion she spoke.
“My husband and I saw it over the weekend. We’ve been flirting with divorce. I
think that movie may have saved our marriage. We want to give “The Love Dare” a
chance.”
Variations
of these scenes, have repeated countless times over the counter in the weeks
since Fireproof debuted. And the story’s burning question rages: How far would you
go to keep a promise? How much would you sacrifice to save your marriage?
It
takes courage to enter a burning environment to save that which appears to be
lost. It requires strength of character, tenacity, and a willingness to put
another’s welfare before the welfare of oneself. All of which are demonstrated
in Fireproof.
Don’t
cheat yourself out of the privilege of seeing this one, my friends. Make the
effort! See it today! Take your loved one and hold hands. This may very well be
one fire you need to run into.
Take
courage, take the reins, and take the advise of Lt. Simmons, “Man! Don’t just
follow your heart, LEAD your heart.” And
remember, the glory of a good marriage doesn’t come in the
beginning…it comes in the end.
DJ Note writes from Eagle Point, Oregon.