Tuned In—or Out

by Lynn Ludwick

“Will passengers in the window seats please lower their shades to make it easier for those who wish to watch the movie?” The flight attendant’s announcement rang with more command than request.

In reluctant compliance I lowered my shade, shutting out my view of cotton candy clouds skittering over patchwork fields. From God’s creation to Hollywood’s simulation. I’d specifically chosen the window seat for the view. I sighed and buried myself in my book.

Such a scenario isn’t limited to airplanes. Drive down any street and you’ll see people sprouting earplugs that connect them to their music world. Children in their safety seats pass the miles with in-car movies or hand-held video games. And the ever-present cell phone—don’t leave home without it.

I’m not standing on my soapbox against modern technology. When I was a child and we lacked such advancements, I read many a book in the car—yet I recall vivid details of cross-country trips. And if I had young children today, strapped torture-style in car seats, I’d surely consider the purchase of an in-car movie setup. But I’d limit viewing times, for God’s creation is worth the viewing. From the grandeur of a frothing river to the delight of roadside wildflowers, His handiwork is evident. Throw in a farm with a red barn, a blue silo and some black and white cows grazing a green pasture, and you have a colorful picture book just outside the window.

Yet more than nature bids my focus—God and other people also await my attention. Sadly, I sometimes tune them out. It’s too easy to listen in the context of how I’ll phrase my reply. Or my mind wanders to other things. When I’m not tuned in I miss a glimpse of that person’s heart. Do they cry out, as did Job? “Oh, that I had someone to hear me!” Job 31:35 I’d do better to heed Solomon: “let the wise listen and add to their learning.” Proverbs 1:5

So the next time I head down the freeway or fly the friendly skies, I won’t promise to keep my book closed. Nor can I realistically commit to total attention in every conversation. But I’ll do my best to tune in to what’s set before my eyes and ears, be it the scenery, free for the viewing, or people ready to share their lives and hearts. And my life will be richer for the experience.

“Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.” Philippians 2:4

Lynn Ludwick writes from Medford, Oregon. lynniegirl45@hotmail.com